Why Girls’ Confidence Drops by 30% (and How We Can Change That)

Between the ages of 10 and 14, research shows that girls’ confidence drops by nearly 30%. This is the age when social comparison increases, when body image concerns grow, and when fear of judgment often keeps girls from speaking up. In the Philippines, many parents notice their daughters becoming quieter in class, dropping out of sports, or doubting their abilities in STEM subjects.

What parents can do:

• Encourage effort, not just results. Celebrate trying, even when things don’t go perfectly.

• Model confidence by showing how you handle challenges, setbacks, and self-doubt.

• Create safe spaces at home where girls can share feelings without judgment.